Sixty seconds, then one page
Tonight's plan
Three quick answers. You get a short plan: what to do tonight, one call to make this week, and which conversation to practice first.
How this works, and what it cannot do
- It runs on this device. Your answers are not sent, saved, or tracked. Close the page and they are gone, unless you print the plan.
- It is a set of rules written in advance, not an AI. The same answers always give the same plan.
- It is not medical, legal, or financial advice. It points you to the people and public programs who can help, with the source for each step.
If someone is in danger right now, call 911. If you are in crisis, or not sure you can keep going, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time.
Where each step comes from (checked 2026-09-29)
- Eldercare Locator, U.S. Administration for Community Living: 1-800-677-1116, call or text.
- National Family Caregiver Support Program (ACL): state grants that fund supports for family caregivers, including respite.
- ARCH National Respite Locator.
- National Institute on Aging: Sharing Caregiving Responsibilities, Does an Older Adult in Your Life Need Help?, Safe Driving for Older Adults, Getting Your Affairs in Order Checklist.
- AAA, Drivers 65 Plus self-rating (AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety).
- Meals on Wheels America provider search · Alzheimer's Association 24/7 Helpline, 1-800-272-3900 · NCOA BenefitsCheckUp · CFPB, Managing Someone Else's Money · Family Caregiver Alliance, Holding a Family Meeting · CDC, Caregiving.